I came across this blog post of mine posted in 2007. It was a tag that Hiphop grandmom, a blogger I read frequently, had asked me to do.
When I read that list and realise too that I will now turn 70 next year, I think of what I have achieved from that and think of how much water has flowed under the bridge in those years.
The list then, and what I have managed out of that--(my achievements are in green and what I didn't achieve is in red and the in between is in yellow.)
1. Travel to South America. I love Latin music and Brazilian music particularly--what i've heard of it. (But I'm willing to take Thailand.) South America is almost certainly out now, what with Covid-19 circling the globe and likely to remain so for another 2 to 3 years (optimistically). But I did get to go near Thailand when my children gifted me a trip to Langkawi off the Thai coast, for my 60th birthday.
2. Hope to see the birth of at least one more grandchild, preferably more! Have seen the birth of 4 more grandkids 😊
3. Maybe go for one spa treatment. Did that, again a gift from the kids for a Mother's Day around 10 years back.
4. Lose around 10 kgs (ok let's get realistic here--5 kgs atleast). I have been able to lose, since then, around 15 kgs. (Pat myself on the back, for what I thought was totally no possible).
5. Be more active in working with under-privileged children. Yes and no. Not good enough.
6. Learn to take negative criticism better--without feeling like I'm the most useless thing around. Getting there. Much better now.
7. Learn to be firm. Not really
8. Hope to get the better of my procrastination. I realise I procastinate depending on how important the thing I am procrastinating about is to me.
There have been many ups and downs in those years. But I am still here, much greyer now, and the realisation that I am certainly not growing younger and now, with Covid-19 around, that life is probably never ever going to be the same again, certainly not in my lifetime.
